What Men Crave!

Hello Lovely Goddess Friends,

First, let me say I hope everyone is doing okay and feeling safe. This virus and all the fear and changes are mentally and emotionally taking a toll on us all. This is especially true if you are a feminine woman who feels deeply. If you are feeling scared and anxious I recommend you go into your body and feel those feelings with focus and awareness. Then when possible let them go returning yourself to the present moment with an open heart and giving spirit. The world and its people need unity and loving energy to heal. I know most of us are locked in our homes and we feel helpless, but remember we have the power to love. Love those who you are with and reach out to those in need. I pray that this passes quickly so we can move on and live differently now that we realize how precious life and freedom is. While you are home it is always a good thing to continue your Goddess work. Therefore, I have some new info. to share.

If you are a reader of my blog you know I love the work of author and speaker, David Deida. He is the king of masculine and feminine energy dynamics and there really is no one else out there like him. So I thought…. Recently, I just discovered a new relationship coach and his name is John Wineland. He has a short YouTube video entitled “What Men Crave”. This video made me so happy! As I watched the video, I felt every cell in my body resonate with what he was saying. I love it when I encounter another relationship coach that vibes with everything I teach. I also love learning about men and relationships from men.

In this video, John explains what men truly desire from women. The best part is that he interviewed men to get the answers! I never have heard such a profound message given so simply. After watching this video of course I binge-watched all his videos on YouTube and his website.

I am now a big fan of John Wineland! Below, I outline the points he makes in the video, but you have to watch it because he does an amazing job explaining each point in more detail.

A few of my favorite moments from the video are: 1) when he says a woman should put as much energy into showing her man how happy he makes her as she does showing him how angry she is. This reminds me of how I greet El Guapo (husband) everyday he gets home from work. I always rush to hug him with a big smile and sweet words and acknowledgments. 2) I also like it when he says that the tools women use in their careers do not work in their love relationship. For example, being the boss, managing and directing. 3) Lastly, I love it when he says that men crave appreciation and women should find something every day that they trust and honor about their man and tell him. This is also something that I practice a lot with El Guapo. Today I told him, “Thank you for driving me around to run errands and making dinner when I was so busy and tired.” I promise it’s all the little words and actions of appreciation that matter to a man. Remember the soul of a man is a hero! The more you see the hero in him, the more he steps up to fill that role. I hope you enjoy the video :)