Sweet Words

See below things I say to my husband in a typical week that honors his masculinity and inspires him to cherish me. This is the natural feminine and masculine energy exchange that was meant to take place between men and women. This is not a game or manipulation. It is honest respect for the masculine. As relationship coach, Pat Allen, says “a man’s deepest unconscious desire is for his thoughts to be respected.” Moreover a man falls in love with how you make him feel. In my relationship, no matter how often the world makes my man feel like a failure he can always count on me to make him feel like a hero. I am his safe, sweet space. In turn, he lives to protect, cherish and make me happy. Please remember this dynamic exists between us after many years of working on our issues. I have been through the dark night of the soul and experienced immense pain trying to figure out how to push through my negative thoughts patterns and release the stored pain inside my heart. It has not been easy and it is still work that must be practiced daily.

Sweet Words:

-Thank you for taking time to ask me about my day. That feels so good.

-Your advice on….. really worked out well. You are so smart.

-I love how you are the boss at work and how all the guys look to you for direction.

-Thank you for working so hard I know it is hard on you.

-That was such a good idea to buy those tickets now we get the points

-Thank you for saying such romantic things to me. You make me feel so special.

- That was a great idea you had about my situation.

- That was great advice you gave your friend. He would have really got himself into a bad situation.

Much Love,

Malena

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