A Real Man Wants A Woman Who Is Playful

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In honor of my love for Christian Carter's work I am posting more of his blog article entitled "4 Things A Man Wants in a Woman" see #1 below :) 

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#1) A Real Man Wants A Woman Who Is Playful

There's something that drives men wild and invites them into a deeper level of "connection" and bonding with a woman faster than plain old talk about feelings and experiences.

And that something is PLAY.

See... men love to be active and to play.

Men were raised to express themselves and connect with those around them through ACTION. Unfortunately, too many women seem to forget this and want to TALK TALK TALK their way into a man's heart.

The strange reality is that as you're getting to know a man... MORE TALK will often get you LESS RESPONSE from a man on an emotional level.

Sure, talking is great to get the facts, and for you to share some things such as your VALUES, and what you do or don't want in a relationship. But the fact is that men don't "feel it" for you because of what you SAY. (Just like you don't meet a man and feel it for him because he has a great "pick-up line"!)

It's not the words... it's the experience.

And for men, the easiest and most straightforward way for a man to engage in his emotions with you is by DOING THINGS with him that DON'T require talking, but allow you to be PLAYFUL with him.

"Doing things" is pretty vague... so I'll give you two examples of PLAYFUL activities you can do with a man that are sure to dial up the emotional intensity, and have him grow more ATTACHED to you:

1. Sports: Not all men love sports or are great at them, and you might not like them either, but that's not the point here. The point here is to play a sport with a man because it involves aspects of a "game". You against him competing.

Any sport will do. Ping pong is an easy favorite because no one is really "good"... and you can have all kinds of playful banter hitting the ball back and forth.

Pool is another good one since it's easy to find when you're out together - plus you can tease him by placing your gorgeous self in front of where he's aiming and distract him so he misses his shot. Then, when you're shooting, ask him to come over and help you so he puts his arms around you. Nice! What man wouldn't love that invitation? Then if you miss, blame it on him in a fun, sarcastic way.

Bottom line, if a man is being active and engaging in a playful game with you while there is also some kind of TOUCHING involved... it's a magic combination that's sure to raise the ATTRACTION level up several notches.

2. Teasing: For men, teasing is a universal way of bonding and communicating that is like an unspoken language that all men speak.

Every man I know at one time or another has told me a story about at least one exciting and attractive woman they once met. Almost all of these stories involve one common theme - the women they were with started TEASING them.

Teasing is easier than you might think. The one catch is to do it all with a sense of humor and fun... and don't get too serious.

The best way to tease a man playfully is to be SARCASTIC with him. If he asks "Do you have the time?" and you have a watch on...

Look at him straight in the eyes and say "Yes," smile, and then turn away from him without telling him the time and stop paying attention to him. He'll realize that you're being funny and see that he only asked you is you KNEW the time, not to tell him. Then he'll either ask you directly what the time is, or he'll start immediately being playful back at you. And away you go, playing together.

This kind of thing is subtle, but builds a growing level of ATTRACTION inside a man for you.

Again, the WORDS you're saying don't matter. What's important is that you're intentionally either misleading him with your words to mess with him, or you're playfully making fun of him.

Some women feel uncomfortable with teasing or making fun of a man. But for men, it's again another way they connect socially. The funny part is, the more you can tease a man and have him laughing and wanting you to be serious for a minute... the more he's going to be wanting to get close to you and know you better. It's funny how men and human nature work.

Try it. You'll love how a man responds!

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