Enchanting a Man
Believe it or not most men crave deep emotional intimacy with a woman. The only thing standing in the way is a man's ability to feel emotionally safe with his woman and a woman's ability to keep her heart open and stay vulnerable and still. Men want to connect with women, it's just that often women are so lost in their fears and self-loathing sabotaging behaviors they leave very little for men to connect with. Therefore, a woman's work is in her own heart - softening the hard parts and learning to feel the wounded pieces. When a woman turns to herself to do this work she will then feel comfortable staying open and inviting him in. Women are the gatekeepers to the mystical world of love and emotion. We invite men in and let them get lost in this magical world. Men want a woman who is in touch with her emotions on a deep level. He does not want her to never feel anything. He just does not want the cheap drama. There is a big difference. A Enchantress knows this difference and it is part of why she magnetizes men. Men unconsciously need and seek this love and deep emotional connection and once they get a taste of it they will never leave. No matter what is going on in your relationship or marriage turn toward yourself and focus on your feelings and triggers. Breathe and find your personal path to healing and you will then change everything.
See below blog post from Kristina Marchant www.connectwithhisheart.com
The fabulous, eye-opening truth about enchanting a man is that you really don’t have to do to anything to captivate him except stay open: You can’t hook, snag, capture, chase down a man’s heart. You can only invite him inside your heart.
Lots of women think, “I would be very open to his advances if he ever actually cared to come closer to me”, but the truth is that it takes A LOT to allow a man inside. You have to be comfortable feeling vulnerable, exposed, available to the moment and to ‘melt’ into his touch, his attention, his compliments, his admiration of the goddess you are. Most of us have too many walls and too little self-confidence to allow this. We feel more comfortable worrying about whether to call him or not, instead of focusing on enjoying him when he does call.
If more women would slow down, stop catering to men, and just remained still (I call it sitting on your hands) with open, available, loving hearts, men would swoon. Try it—tomorrow when you run into a man at work out the gym, just plant yourself near him, feel your heart glowing with soft love and don’t say anything to him. If he notices you, and he will, then smile back. If he speaks to you, answer him honestly and tenderly. Look him in the eye and see your beauty being reflected back to you in his irises. If you get nervous, let him see that he unnerves with by smiling coyly or saying, “The way you look at me; it makes me nervous.” Don’t be the aggressor, don’t fill in the silences, just be available to his advances. It’s a wonderful, freeing feeling and it makes love so much more rewarding for the man, who wants to hunt and provide.