Inside the Mind of a Man

A Man Needs a Woman......

Needs a woman to show appreciation for little and big things

Needs a woman to respect his thoughts and ideas

Needs a woman to have a light heart and be playful and fun; Emotions Yes/Drama No! 

Needs a woman to trust his plans and accept him as he is

Needs a woman to not control or manage his life or the relationship

Needs alone time, with no repercussions; He needs a woman who understands that there is a balance between togetherness and intimacy

Needs a woman to understand he needs to replenish himself by taking space and he needs a woman who allows him to without taking it personal; If she does he will come back and give her more

Needs to feel like he is naturally and of his own free will choosing to commit and be with a woman

Needs his woman to ask him for help and advice so he can feel like a hero

Needs a woman to let him lead the relationship forward and make the plans

Needs a woman to be able to receive his love, time and attention and then show him appreciation for it

Needs to feel a woman's soft touch when he is stressed and overwhelmed

Needs a woman to express her desire for him regularly

Needs his woman to say what she feels, without blame or criticism, when she feels it

Needs a woman to not chase and pursue him therefore allowing room for him to move toward her and pursue her (even in marriage)

Needs a woman who is connected, but independent ( a balance between closeness and space)

Needs a woman who allows him to feel like he is in control

Needs a woman to not try to move the relationship too fast; she must respect his emotional pace

Needs a woman who wants a relationship, but does not need one to make her whole

Needs a woman who knows that men grow close and committed by giving not receiving; also not by thinking or talking

Needs a woman who has access to her feelings and has a deep foundation in her emotional world so he can enter into this world with her. Goddesses are the gatekeepers to the emotional world in the relationship.

Needs a woman who has hobbies/passions outside of him; something she can talk about that brings her joy

If a man finds these things in you, he will move mountains to be with you and make you happy.

I promise.

Much Love,

Malena