The Only Thing That Matters

Emotional Environment

I just read Rori Raye's new e-book "Surrender to Love" and it is very good. She gets right to the point when she says "In fact, nothing but the way you relate to him emotionally counts." This is at the core of being a true Goddess. What I mean by that is that a true Goddess knows her power is in her ability to feel her feelings and provide a beautiful emotional environment for the relationship. This way her man is captivated and constantly seeking refuge and comfort with her. He loves the feeling of warmth and acceptance and he finds himself needing and wanting to be in this space more and more. It is magical for him to be with a woman that knows how to create this.  If your relationship is falling apart the first question you want to ask yourself is "what type of emotional environment am I creating?" Is it a loving, calm, sweet space or is it a battleground full of arrows and swords? This will determine weather he withdraws from you or moves mountains to be closer to you.

Connect With His Heart

Creating an emotionally warm, safe and loving environment (don't forget sensual too!) is the first step.  Then your man is able to let down his man armor and you are able to connect with his heart. In fact the only way to keep your man connected and invested in you and the relationship is by connecting with his heart. Yet, you cannot do that if your heart space is blocked and walled off. A man falls in love with a woman's vulnerability not her fortress. So the bottom line is always the same. Heal your own heart and then share the love, peace and kindness that comes from that with your man. A man only falls in love and commits to a woman who loves and nurtures herself. It all begins with you.