A Man Needs a Woman To....

Hello Beautiful Goddess!

Well, the tornado of transformation has swept me up again. The universe/life/God has plans and wants me to heal EVERYTHING like now! I have not been blogging much for the last few months because I have been busy putting all my blog advice to work. The good news is that my advice works! Thank God! I would never want to advise my blog readers to do something that does not work or benefit their relationship. Without getting into too many personal details, I have been asked by life to Surrender and Trust my man, El Guapo, and life in general. Has it been easy? Absolutely not! In fact, I have found myself on a number of occasions making pleas to the universe to lighten up my enlightenment training. I really feel like life is supposed to feel good and flow, and I am determined to figure it out. Since our intimate relationships are where most of our pain comes from, I always begin there first.

So what gems of wisdom do I have for you today after the last few months of ruthless surrender practice with El Guapo? My advice - give up control of your man! Masculine men want peace and freedom. If you let them be, they will find their way and give you what you want if they love you. My 2nd piece of advice - focus on the demons in your mind. These dark thought patterns were there before, and your man and your current relationship are just activating them. A new man won’t make them go away because they live in YOUR mind. You will only attract another person that will activate them again. The work you need to do is in your own head and heart. Find a way to identify your negative story and work like hell to shut it down. My last piece of advice - soften how you communicate your pain to your man. Remember to never blame, attack, nor criticize when sharing your pain. Also, do not make your man responsible to fix your pain. In the end, anything he does is just a band-aid. Own it! Find a way to make yourself feel better. If your man sees you do this, he will feel like moving mountains to help you. If you blame him, he will put up a wall and get defensive. You will then become the enemy in his eyes and the battle of who is right and wrong will rage on. I realize none of this is new information. I have written about it many times, but repetition is good. The path to a beautiful connection and relationship is not complicated; it is just very different from how we are used to being. So, with that said, the tornado has spit me out and I feel fabulous today because I have been using all my own advice. If you are sick of not feeling wonderful in your relationship, I suggest you get to work. :) Your fairytale awaits! See tips below to help.

Much Love,

xoxo Malena

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