Why Men Run, Hide or Disappear

Hello Ladies!

If I had to pick one concept for all women to understand that would help them turn their relationship around it would be the concept of “Emotional Safety” for a man. Creating emotional safety for your man means understanding your triggers and knowing how to manage your emotions without dumping on your man or requiring him to fix you. On a daily basis a man feels burdened by the world and feels like he is in a constant state of struggle. He longs for a woman he can turn to that will be his safe haven to rest his weary mind. He wants a woman who can rejuvenate him with her feminine loving energy. He needs a woman to be his retreat. Yet, now a days women find it very difficult to be this safe haven for their men. Women these days are stressed out from the demands of the world and assaulted by their own chaotic egoic minds. Creating emotional safety for your man means you must do the inner work of healing your negative thought patterns that trigger your emotions and behaviors in intimate relationships. When you heal these you become less reactive and you are easier to be with and relate to. You will bring him light and love not darkness and drama. Then a man sees that you are like fresh water in a barren desert. A woman that can provide emotional safety for a man is rare in this world. This rarity is what causes a man to grow and becomes a good partner in order not to lose you. There are few women that get this concept and actually live it. Read Katarina Phan’s website article below for a more in depth understanding. This article nails it.

https://katarinaphang.com/you-must-make-a-man-feel-safe-for-a-relationship-to-last/

Much Love,

Malena