The Alchemy of Feminine Energy

I told a client today that being a feminine woman may look to others like you are a meek woman, saying yes to whatever your man wants or being okay with all his bad boy behavior, but in fact it is the opposite. Being a real feminine woman takes fierce strength. It take a tremendous amount of willpower and discipline to love with an open heart and learn to express your feelings in a non-threatening way. A feminine woman may seem weak, but she knows exactly what she wants and she knows inside what she will accept. The secret to being a Goddess is that you know the key to a man's heart is showing him your vulnerability - That my dear friends is not for the weak! Any woman can close her heart and blame and attack her man day in and day out. It is easy to live behind a fortress and point a finger.  A feminine Goddess knows how to manage her emotional triggers and focus on her man's goodness. She knows the importance of showing respect for a man's masculine energies and she uses the power of her love to transform him into her knight in shining armor. This is the alchemy of feminine energy.  See the list below I made while thinking about how to coach my clients.

Much Love,

Malena 

Men need….

Needs a woman to show appreciation

Needs a woman to respect his thoughts and ideas

Needs a woman who knows that men grow close and committed by giving not receiving; and not be thinking or talking

Needs a woman who knows how to express her feelings without demolishing her man with negative emotion and angry outbursts

Needs you to be playful, light and fun

Needs you to trust & accept him

Needs you to not control or manage him or the relationship

Needs alone time, with no repercussions. He needs a woman who understands a balance between togetherness and intimacy. A woman that knows a man needs to replenish himself by taking space and if his woman allows him to do this without taking it personal, he will come back and give her more

Needs to feel like he is naturally and of his own free will choosing to commit and be with a woman

Needs his woman to ask him for help and advice so he can feel like her hero

Needs his woman to be able to receive his energy, time and attention and then show him appreciation

Needs to feel her soft touch when he is stressed and overwhelmed

Needs his woman to express her desire for him regularly

Needs his woman to say what she does not want/like when she feels it, in a non-blaming way

Needs a woman to not chase and pursue him, so there is room for him to move toward her and chase her

Needs a woman who is connected but independent ( a balance between closeness and space)

Needs to feel like he is in control

Needs a woman to not try to move the relationship too fast. She must respect his emotional pace

Needs to know that his woman can say no when something does not feel good to her. “No” is the most powerful words a man can hear from a woman

Needs a woman who wants a relationship, but does not need one to make her whole

Needs a woman who understands the closer/intimate you get with a man the more likely he will withdraw from you

Needs a woman who is strong on the inside and soft on the outside

Needs a woman to show him how to access his feelings. We women are the gatekeepers to the emotional world

Needs a woman who has hobbies/passions outside of him

Men's Job Is To….

Protect a woman

Give to a woman

Cherish a woman’s feelings

Women's Job Is To….

Appreciate her man, especially when he gives to her

Respect his opinions

Be patient and vulnerable