A Woman Craves The Divine Masculine
I have a new love and his name is David Deida. He is an author and lecturer speaking about topics such as Masculine and Feminine energies between men and women. He also writes/speaks about sexual polarity attraction. This is a fascinating topic if you are having a difficult time in your intimate life. So you may be wondering why do I love this author/lecturer? I love him because he feels a man is at his best when he is cherishing a woman he loves and living life fearlessly with an open heart. He also says that a man must pursue his passions and obtain his set goals or he will feel inadequate and empty and not have the energies available to navigate the world of feminine mysteries. Its deep stuff, but enlightening. I especially like what he says about masculine and feminine energies complimenting each other and creating lust and attraction. I noticed in my own life his theories to be 100% true.
Much Love,
Malena
Quotes below from David Deida's book, "The Way of the Superior Man"
Quote #1) “Every moment of your life is either a test or a celebration. The same is true about every moment with your woman, only doubly so. Not only is her simple existence a test for you, but one of her deepest pleasures in intimacy is testing you, and then feeling you are not moved off course by her challenge.
The most erotic moment for a woman is feeling that you are Shiva, the divine masculine: imperturbable, totally loving, fully present, and all-pervading. She cannot move you, because you already are what you are, with or without her. She cannot scare you away, because you already penetrate her in fearless love, pervading her heart and body. She cannot distract you, because your one-pointed commitment to truth will not bend to her wiles. Feeling this hugeness of love and freedom in you, she can trust you, utterly, and surrender her testing in celebration of love.
Until she wants to feel you as Shiva again. And then the testing will begin anew. In fact, it is precisely when you are most Shiva-like that she will most test you.”
― David Deida
Quote #2) “Your woman knows your weaknesses better than anybody. She knows where you will falter and give up. She knows the degree of mediocrity you will settle for. And, she knows your true capacity as a full man, a man of free consciousness and love. Her gift, if she is a good woman, is to test you with her darkest moods, over and over and over, until your consciousness is unperturbed by feminine challenge, and you are able to pervade her with your love, just as you are here to pervade the world. In response to your fearless consciousness, she will drench your world in love and light.”
― David Deida
Quote #3) “To the masculine lover – “Without a deep sense of purpose to direct your daily life, you will be directed by externals-financial need, your children’s needs, your lover’s needs-and you will begin to blame them for your lack of fulfillment. You will feel trapped in obligations, and your resentments will show. You will hold back in your relationships with your lover and family, not really wanting to be there, unsure what else to do, mired in ambiguity, guilt, and anger. Your actions will lack integrity and follow-through. Your feminine lover won’t be able to trust you in everyday life or open to you sexually.” Pg 121”
― David Deida