When a Man is Pulling Away….

Hello beautiful Goddesses,

I just wanted to share an email I sent a client after she expressed her concern that her man was pulling away. I dont think I need to share her particular details because at the end of the day my guidance can be used for most situations. Hope this touches someone who needd to hear these words. See below

Xoxo

Hello,

Thank you for sharing your story. I can see why you are feeling afraid and confused. Men will pull away for many reasons. Sometimes because they really feel that life with a woman will not work- meaning they cannot manage the stress it will bring and because they cannot give their woman what it will take to make her happy. In that case, there is nothing you can do but focus on yourself and your dreams and desires. If he sees you put yourself first he will feel great love and attraction for you. This may get him to change his mind or it may not.

You have to be prepared to let him go if he doesn't change his mind. You must love and honor your dreams more then wanting him. Your happiness comes first! You should continue to date and keep your heart open to other men and your passions in life.

You might also consider stopping sleeping with him so you don't continue to feel bad. Let him decide of his own free will to claim you. Stop trying to control situation because it will only backfire. Men do not want to be controlled or convinced to commit to a woman. It has to come from his heart because he decided it was worth the sacrifice.

Another reason a man may pull away.is because he feels you depend on him too much for your emotional stability. A man will pull away if he feels a woman needs him to alway make her feel secure, loved deep inside and happy. He feels too much pressure. So with all this said, you must lean back not to manipulate his behavior, but to feed your own soul and learn to feel good again without him.

Remember relationships are all about evolving your old negative emotions you have buried in your heart.

This is an opportunity for you to grow. You can create a beautiful loving relationship with a great man when you commit to yourself first. I send you light and love.

Malena 💕

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