The Magic Formula
Hello Beautiful Goddess,
It's been awhile since I've posted a blog. I have felt a bit uninspired lately. I feel like I keep talking about the same relationship topics and their getting old. I wanted to bring you something different, something new, some magical formula that will help fix everything and transform all your bad relationships and negative patterns. So I sat with myself a few weeks to see what came to me.
I wanted to bring you something different, something new, some magical formula that will help fix everything
Well my revelation is not new, but I do believe it is the core of the issue. I realized the magic pill is not just about doing it perfectly this way or doing it with a feminine twist that way. It is really about transforming the PERCEPTION in your mind. You see in order to be different you have to see things differently. At the core you must let go of control and fear and surrender into Love. This is what allows you to surrender into your man's masculine leadership. You first surrender into trusting that the universe will care for your needs, then you can trust surrendering to the masculine force in your man.
You see in order to be different, you have to see things differently
The reason that so many things can be healed with your perception is because what you see in the world is just a reflection of your own mind. If you have a history of abandonment and rejection, you see it in every situation and in every relationship. If you have a history of not feeling good enough or feeling like you always mess things up, you will create that in your outer world. Then you will tell yourself, “see I was right!” The physical world is just a mirror of your internal world. So again, I direct all women to do the inner work and then to wait and see it reflected in the outside world.
When you feel triggered by a man instead of blaming him, which never works, take a moment to build your awareness (observer mind). Look with awareness at the story your ego mind is creating and feel the painful sensations in your body. Learn to transform your experience from the inside out. If you want long lasting change it's always going to be an inner journey of healing your perception of the situation. Don't get me wrong relationship tools, such as feminine and masculine energy, work and they are necessary. I am just saying that the core issue (how you perceive things - fear or love) must be healed first. Things will never last if you just force yourself to say the right thing, do the right thing and write the perfect text.
The real battle is between your awareness (the true you) and your ego mind. The ego mind is always looking for a problem. It's always looking to blame & defend itself. It is designed to always feel slighted, betrayed and rejected. It’s the small you that feels disconnected from love. This is your real problem. Your man was just put in your life, with all his inadequacies, to trigger you to learn to live in your higher mind and let go of your ego mind. Remember a man falls in love with how you make him feel. So if your inner world is a chaotic battle, your relationship will be a reflection of that same chaos.
Much Love,
Malena
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