The Feminine Gift - Bringing Him Life Energy

In my last blog I talked about the stand off between my observer mind (higher mind) and my ego ( crazy negative thoughts) in regards to my relationship. Update…. I am winning! Over the last few weeks I have done an amazing job keeping up with the Goddess way of life. I have been triggered, noticed the old story in my mind, stared it down and it has dissolved. With all this work I have been able to stay clear in my energy and soft and sweet with El Guapo (husband). It’s crazy to think about how much drama I have avoided by taking responsibility and transforming my negative thoughts patterns. My reward? El Guapo is as romantic, attentive and cherishing as ever. In celebration (lol) I want to share one of my FAVORITE books. It is entitled “It’s a Guy Thing” by David Deida. It really explains the whole masculine and feminine thing beautifully. See excerpt below!

Excerpt form David Deida’s Book “It’s a Guy Thing.” Pg 73.

What Does He Really Want From Me?

The reason a man chooses to be with a woman as an intimate partner - rather than with another man, a cat, or nobody - is because he wants to be intimate with the feminine force of the universe. He’s choosing to open himself in intimacy with someone who can give him feminine love and energy; that’s why he’s chosen a woman for an intimate partner…..

A key for the woman’s side of the relationship is acknowledging her power of feminine attraction. Because many men tend to be rigid and stuck in their self-centered world, they need to be attracted by the feminine force. Their rigidity is healed by that force. And then they open in love. When you are in touch with your love, in touch with your heart, and when you offer him your love as a woman, he will be attracted beyond his momentary form of self-involvement or distraction.

The feminine force is a gift that gives energy and life - for instance, putting on really nice music and dancing, giving a simple massage or bringing him a glass of juice in the morning. Your feminine energy makes him feel, “Ahhh. It’s great to be alive and with you.” The feminine form of love is a gift that enlivens him.

Your feminine energy makes him feel,

“Ahhh. It’s great to be alive and with you.”

It could b e your smile. It could be the beautiful clothes you wear - or don’t wear. It could be the way you put flowers next to the bed. It could be the way you whisper your love to him. It could be anything that has the effect of relieving his sense of burden and bringing him life energy.

Whereas the feminine feels blessed by life and relationships, most men feel burdened. Women feel equally burdened by life and relationships if they are in their masculine mode. The sense of being unburdened, of delight, of energy, of radiance, of enlivenment, of the flow of life itself, is feminine energy.

The sense of being unburdened, of delight, of energy, of radiance, of enlivenment, of the flow of life itself, is feminine energy.

And it comes from your heart of love. When you gift a man with this energy of love he feels you as his cherished woman, rather than a housemaid, a business partner, or a mother. He feels you as a goddess.