"A goddess would rather conjure up her own light than to pursue a man's affections" quote by, Kristina Marchant
The more I read Kristina Marchant's e-books the more I realize what it means to be a real woman and goddess. First of all it means loving yourself enough to not chase a man. It means never begging for more time, commitment or attention. It means every time you find yourself obsessing over him, you turn your attention back on yourself. It means not making him the center of your world and always making sure you can live without him. It means being in touch with your feelings so you can be open and vulnerable with him and connect with his heart. It means you create space between the both of you so he can have room to move toward you and bring you light. Then as Kristina's Marchant says you take that light and you weave it into a beautiful relationship that inspires him to keep giving. This is the way a man and a woman are suppose to be in relationship with each other. The problem is that us women have lost our way. We are hollow inside and think a man will fix our existential emptiness. It's not true. The fix is spiritual in nature. The solution is for you to develop your connection with love/life and or whatever you call your higher power. You connect yourself to something that sustains you from the inside. Once you do this then you can have a real relationship with a man because you will not be depending on him to make you feel happy and secure. Until then you are just an energy vampire and he knows it. .
See a excerpt below from Kristina Marchant's e-book.
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The Prism Effect: How to Get a Man to Love You
By: Kristina Marchant - www.connectwithhisheart.com
Brilliance/Radiance
A prism will sparkle, illuminate, and shine the most beautiful colors when receiving light. The stronger the light the more brilliant they shine. A good man has the power to make a woman radiate light, love and beauty. I want you to twinkle and glimmer like a prism. I want you to allow a good man to shower you with LIGHT. So often we aren’t comfortable with attention. We don’t embrace feeling like a crystal chandelier in the center of a room—grand and sparkly. But a good man wants to see that he has the power to make you happy. He wants to know he has what it takes to please his woman.
Radiate Feminine Energy & Receive, Receive, Receive
Prisms receive LIGHT and then twinkle, twinkle, twinkle. They don’t chase LIGHT. In fact, if there isn’t a man around to cast LIGHT over a woman, then she immediately should do so for herself. A goddess would rather conjure up her own light than to pursue a man’s affections.
And yet so many of us do this all the time in our relationships. We have too much masculine energy in love. Men are trained at an early age to try and be problem solvers, doers, thinkers, the pursuers, the movers and shakers. They have instincts to create, to fix, to ACT. Feminine energy is the balance to this.
This energy is about receiving all the masculine energy and reflecting it back to inspire more masculine energy.
A feminine woman who attracts a masculine man understands that there is WAY more power in receiving than in competing with his masculine energy. She understands that a good relationship has balance and if she wants him to be an alpha male she has to be a goddess who sits back and lets him give to her.
Receiving well is about melting into a man’s gift: his LIGHT. Whether it’s a touch, an act of thoughtfulness, a smile or quality time spent with you—he’s offering you a precious gift from his heart. A goddess knows this and has the thoughtfulness and confidence to say “thank you” every time she is given to. She knows when to say “I’m proud of you for doing this for me.” She knows how to stimulate the creation of more LIGHT in her direction.