6 Things Every Man Needs

1. A man needs to feel emotionally safe with a woman. A man needs a woman who is in control of her emotions. He needs to know that a woman can calmly and lovingly express her pains and frustrations.  He needs a woman who does not depend on a man to fulfill her or make her happy.

2. A man needs to feel 100% accepted for who he is. He needs a woman who is not focused on changing him, but instead loves his light and dark side. (this does not include bad boy behavior such as lying, cheating or physical or verbal abuse).

3. A man needs a woman who appreciates him - big and little things. He needs a woman who is comfortable receiving and tells him how happy she is with what he has said or done for her. A man wants to be around a woman who makes him feel good and appreciation is the golden elixir.  

4. A man needs to be needed. He wants a woman who allows him to be her knight in shinning armor. A woman can be independent at work, but when she is home she allows him to take care of her. He needs a woman who is vulnerable, has an open heart and finds ways to show him he is needed.

5. A man needs to be respected not controlled. He needs a woman who is not managing him and telling him what he should or should not do all the time. He does NOT need a woman to tell him how to solve his problems at work, or tell him a better route to a destination or how to eat healthier. A man likes to figure things out for himself, it makes him feel competent and good about himself. 

6. A man needs to feel he can make his woman happy. He needs an easy woman. He needs a woman who is already happy with herself and her life. He does not need a woman who is bickering with him all the time, constantly focusing on negative things or criticizing him. A man gains his worthiness from how content his woman is with him. It makes him feel like a King when his woman is happy. 

Malena Violeta