Wow! That Makes Sense
According to Relationship expert, Dr. Pat Allen, the success of a romantic relationship rests on two principles:
1. A man's greatest psychic craving is that his thoughts be respected.
2. A woman's greatest psychic craving is to have her feelings cherished.
How do you respect a man’s thoughts? You compliment him for his wonderful ideas and his small and big decisions. A man craves being with a woman with whom he feels good around and a woman that he feels he can make happy. You repetitively say, “You are right” and “That makes sense” and “Wow! that was a great idea.” You do not do this in a fake or manipulative way. You do it in a loving way because you want to make him feel good and want to nourish his psychic craving to have his thoughts respected. You are coming from your feminine/goddess energy. It is a very powerful woman that can give this to her man. When this need is met in him, he is eager and willing to please you. He wants to give back to the woman who makes him feel like a King. This is when he slips into his masculine energy and he cherishes your feelings and makes you feel loved. It is the beautiful dance that a man and a woman were meant to do together. It is this balance of energies that allows for passion, intimacy and love.