Safe, Sweet Place

This is my first blog post for "The Art of Loving a Man". Here is the essence of Soft, Sweet and Slow.

The worst thing you can do to a man is shame, blame or criticize him. Instead communicate calmly and be a safe and sweet place he can let down his guard and rest. Then he will open his heart and be motivated to make you happy and fulfill your needs. When you can open your heart and slow down in the midst of pain and show him how you feel, without making it his fault, then he can truly know who you are and show genuine interest in how you feel. This is real intimacy.